What must you be thinking when you put a fantasy aside your reality and believe that the fantasy will have more depth, longevity, satisfaction, respect, promise, and meaning? The answer is that you don’t think – you just imagine!One of the newest and most destructive forces in relationships (even marriages) today is the Internet. Cyber-affairs are costing too many children and innocent spouses the warmth and comfort of an intact home. Both men and women are carrying on in chatrooms and develop “feelings” sufficient to propel them out of their homes and families to be with someone they “know will be everything that’s missing in their lives.” Everything, of course, other than a brain!
I mean, really, how insensitive and cruel can one be to someone he/she once thought he/she couldn’t live without? Are they bored? And why is anyone bored? The answer is, only because he or she is boring. Bored people rarely think of anything or anyone besides themselves and being entertained, thrilled, titillated, excited, distracted, or being the center of attention.
Ouch!
When friends tell me that they’re bored in their lives, or bored in their marriages/relationships, I jump on them to admit that they don’t do anything to add to the well-being of themselves or their family – they just want to feel a certain feeling and, in that laziness, think that there is just some other guy or gal who’ll just make it happen. Good luck!
waaaaaahhhhh ate....hit me again!!! having an cyber-affair with a married man? well that's me but not anymore...i guess i bumped my head too hard for me to realize that im so wrong! that's a big OUCH, ate..... im boring, really! but im working it out...hayyyyyy
ReplyDeleteWhew! That's something to celebrate about you know... at least you're out of that rut. So smile and chin up!
ReplyDeleteThere is no such thing as boring.. they shouldn't invented that word lol. happiness is a state of mind..anyone who say's he is bored or on certain things doeskin realize that life is not such a boring thing.
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